Soft, Medium & Hard in 100% are equally matched in terms of wear but the drop-off in the tyres seems to be at fault, you have to go over 60% usage of Soft before Medium has a chance and use over 50% Medium for Hard to have a chance.
Making own rules and forcing to use SS & S or SS & M or SS & H at a race would work, but it also works fine if you do away with all the other tyres and everyone uses just Soft's. :D