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In this circumstance, where it looks wet weather but is completely dry, how should I use the advanced pitstop thing to help me? Would an example be "if it stops raining for 5 laps set to hard tyres" or something, but will every pit stop after this be hard tyres? or like in my last race, will they then revert back to putting on Wets after the first ones?
Personally, I always set the "stop raining" compound to one of the dry tires (Soft or Hard), and the "start raining" compound to Full Wet. In my experience, Intermediates are good in some situations but conditions that require the full Wets are much more common.
I try to pick my leagues based on what sort of time I have available and when I'm most likely to not have something else to do. I actually just switched leagues because my schedule has changed and the timing (time of day) and time commitment required (100% league, so minimum 2 hours investment on race day) wasn't convenient anymore. I'd say at least 80% of success in this game is just showing up to the races.
I set my Advanced Strategy the way I do because if I can't attend a race with the Live Controls, my Advanced Strategy will take over and hopefully give me the best option as far as a compromise. If a race starts dry and it begins raining, there will usually be a period where a dry tire is best, then the Inters, then the Wets. As far as I know, there's no way to integrate three different compounds into an Advanced Strategy situation (Soft -> Inter -> Wet; if you have more wet weather experience than I do feel free to disagree here). When it starts raining, dry tires start cooling off and losing pace, but typically you can wait about two laps without losing too much time, and then switch to full Wets before the conditions are right for them. You have to keep in mind that in a mid-race weather change, it might be better to run the Softs or Hards a bit longer than is typically wise, then switch straight on to the Wets. I'll give you a couple of examples...
Example 1: (I'm making this one up.)
You've got a very small lead (say, two seconds or less). You're coming to twelve laps left in the race, and it starts raining. Your closest competitor pits immediately, and takes Intermediate tires. It's raining at a rate that in one lap (so 11 to go), the Inters will be faster, but only for five laps. That will leave six laps at the end where the (full) Wets are best. It's probably prudent to stay out on dry tires for two laps, then pit with nine laps remaining and go straight on to the Wets. That means you lose time for about two laps on your dry tires, and three laps on your Wets, but it saves you an extra pit stop. If a pit stop costs you 23 seconds on the track (which is a typical situation), you can give up a few seconds on track to save the extra stop. You pit with nine laps left and take Wets. You've lost a bit of time on the dry tires, and your rival removes your two second lead, and you rejoin the track on a slower tire and a one-second deficit. Your rival will be quicker, but in three laps it will be too wet for the Inters and he'll have to pit again for Wets. He pits again with six laps to go and takes full Wets this time. He pulled out a six-second lead before pitting, but now he's giving up 23 seconds by making a pit stop. You retake the lead, and it's now 17 seconds instead of two, and you've already got a bit of temperature in your tires. There's no way your rival will gain 17 seconds in 6 laps. It's an "easy" win.
Example 2: (This one actually happened to me some time back.)
I had a race in Singapore where it started raining. I was in a private league at the time, in the Pro tier. I had started the team (actually, it was the team for the account I'm posting from) the season before and got promoted after my first season. I ended up changing leagues to help my friends fill out their grid, but I was up against stronger competition. Most everyone else had at least an extra season of experience, and I really only had the staff and equipment to fight for the midfield and score occassional points. (Less experienced/trained driver, didn't have KERS, etc.)
This particular Singapore race, the rain came on lap 27 of 30. I was running 8th, in a pretty tight pack. I looked at what the weather was doing, and I realized that for the rest of the race, I was going to lose about 5 seconds per lap by staying out (so 15 seconds total), but a pitstop would cost me about 24 seconds on its own. I decided to stay out on my Soft tires, and ended up gaining a spot and finishing 7th, as the 2nd-place driver pitted and exited the pits a few seconds behind me, and there he stayed.
Hopefully that gives you some insight into mixed-condition racing, and perhaps in future you can channel your inner Jenson Button and make the right strategic calls. :D